Why Women Can not Get pregnant

When being small in China, I seldom heard that a woman could not get pregnant.

At that time, life was very hard and living condition was so poor. However, birth rate was high and quality of babies seemed much better than today’s.

Now in China life is easier than before and living condition is quite good. But so many women could not get pregnant naturally. Even through IVF, the successful rate of pregnancy is still very low.

Why is it like this? What is the reason behind?

When I studied The science of public health, the statistics showed in Europe more than 30 percent of women could not get pregnant naturally. It is too high to be believed.

I used to wonder why in Europe birth rate is so low while living condition is much better than a lot of other countries.

Modern medical technology can help to fertilize an egg, but it is hard to keep the embryo develop in a woman’s womb. It requires body energy to retain the developing of the embryo.

Body energy runs through all our body in a form of blood and blood goes better in a warm state so body temperature should play a very important part in low birth rate.

This explains why a woman can get pregnant naturally by just eating and drinking warm, which I have written before.

Function food 2

All food has certain function.

It is the function of food that matters a lot, for instance, beans and milk products can build up gas. But there is also some food that can help us release the gas in our stomach, for example:fennel.

We are all so different from each other. If you pay close attention to your food in-taking and see how your body reacts to this food, you will notice what your body likes and what your body does not like.

It is not because of the vitamin or mineral contained in the food that are important but the function of the food, which our body can make good use of.

Those who have a sensitive stomach can tell a lot about what their body likes or what their body does not like, which is why I have said that they are relatively healthy.

If your health status is in this stage, you can keep your health through eating some food.

What food is best for you? Just try different food and see how your body reacts,then you know what you need.

You are special: No one could know you better than yourself.

Every piece of food has function. This function must be transformed by our body energy. If our body energy is low, the function of food cannot be transformed. Then it becomes a burden to our body.

Now it comes to the key issue for our health, body energy.

When our body energy is low, no matter what you eat, it is just hard to see the good effect.

Allergic to cats

One acquaintance does not like to go to her husband’s parent’s place as she is allergic to cats and her in-laws have a cat.

Once, I asked her what kind of symptoms she has with her allergy. She said that she would keep on sneezing with tears in her eyes and a running nose.

One day, she came to my home and she was talking about her allergy in her in- laws place again.

I was wondering if she has to be close to a cat and then her allergy happens or something else. She said she did not need to be close to a cat to have her allergy. As long as she is in a place where there is a cat, the symptoms for her allergy will appear.

Then I told her we have a cat peacefully, but I did not see her sneeze, not tears in her eyes and not a running nose. She did not believe me in the beginning. Very soon, she saw my cat walking towards his door.

With half her mouth opened, she looked at me and my cat, shocked.

I was joking if she is allergic to her in-laws, which caused her allergy to cats. That is really a point, she laughed. But I am really allergic to cats, she said.


Most of people think that obesity is caused by consuming too much food with high calorie. Calories give us energy.

According to this, people with overweight should have more energy. As matter of fact, those who are overweight normally are very easy to get tired and they could not handle much physical work. Isn’t it a contradiction?

At the same time, there is another group of people who eat very little, but they still complain that they are getting heavier. Why is it like that?

A few of Chinese famous actors were saying in public that they could get heavier by drinking water. I am sure that they are not the only ones who feel that way.

I noticed this through my husband. He eats less than I do, but his weight grows quicker than mine. He could manage to do less and less physical work, even it is hard for him to hang up the washed clothes. If he tried his best to do some physical exercises,it will be impossible for him to do something else.

Obesity is caused by low body energy.

The food with high calories is just stored in their body. This food cannot be digested properly; of course it cannot be absorbed properly. The fat is just stored in their body. It is gall that resolves fat. The high calorie cannot be resolved by gall and it cannot be consumed as energy. Then it becomes a burden to our body. Obesity is the consequence.

To those who eat less and still feel that they are getting heavier,they have the same problem, low body energy. All in takings are just built up in their body, which is why they feel heavier.


I must have had mild PMS before my daughter was born, but I had not paid attention to it much so I was not sure about that.

After my daughter was born, my PMS was getting worse. Short of breath, tiredness and bad mood were so common to me.

Before period, my temper was getting very bad and very bad. Sometimes, I was so much close to lose control. Because of that, I went to see my family doctor in Australian. I did not say how bad I was, she began to talk about how bad it could be, like before the period, you just want to leave your husband, you felt so bad about him and so on.

I was thinking, oh my goodness, how could she know so detailed?

What she was talking about was very much like me. Obviously, I was not the only one who felt like that.

She suggested that I should take a kind of tablet made of natural herb, called Evening Primrose Oil. This tablet is supposed to be good for women who have PMS.

I did and then I felt like a little out of control, just want to sing and behave like somebody in sane. I stopped.

Later, we came to Sweden. PMS did not get better. But one thing I noticed was that before period, I was so easy to get irritated by my husband who had been aware for some time. He called it red light time and he had to be cautious. After the period, I felt so lucky to have him; he is so charming and I love him so much.

Nearly every month it happened like that, which made me think of the reason behind.

It must be something that led to how I felt about my husband. Then what is it?

The key point to be healthy

Do not spend too much time in finding out what you eat can help you to be healthy any more. It would not work definitely.

What you should care is whether your body has enough energy or not, which is the key point to be healthy.

In order that your body has enough energy to function well, the most important thing you have to do is to sleep in right time.

You must think that I am talking rubbish because you could not sleep in the first place. In that case, you have to find out the reason why you cannot go to sleep.

If you have problem in your stomach system, it is difficult to go to sleep. If your heart does not feel well, it is hard to go to sleep, too. There are other reasons, as well.

Everyone has problem and we are all different. Pay attention to your body and it will not be that difficult to know your reason of sleeping disorder.

Doctor uncle Six

In my close relatives, there were three and half doctors. Two uncles in my father side , one was conventional medicine doctor, I called him uncle Six and one was Chinese medicine doctor, I called him uncle One.

Uncle Six did very well in medical school and He had worked in a state owned company until Chinese economic reform began. Then he opened his own practical clinic. He found that he had diabetes in his late thirties.

In his last few years, he went to Chinese doctors to seek help. I still remember that he came to my family and went to a Chinese doctor in another province with my mother because my mother had seen this doctor for a while for a lump in her breast.

My mother’s lump was gone with this doctors’ herb medicine and uncle Six heard that.

He wanted to see this doctor, too because insulin could not help him anymore. It was from him that I heard the word insulin for the first time. That was long time ago.

Anyway, this Chinese doctor did not keep him long. He died of diabetes at age of 42 in 1981.

To be continued


Depression is related with heart. In another word, if your heart does not feel good, then it is easy for you to feel depressed.

One easy way to check: lie down on your back and draw a line between your two nipples and then find the middle point. Massage the middle point, you should feel pain there.

The other way to check is to massage your under arms, you will also feel pain.

Spring is coming. A lot of people will feel bad, feel depressed.

Cancer is not scaring

Cancer is not scaring. The scaring thing is the treatment for cancer.

A lot of us have cancer cells in our body. Only those whose health status is getting worse and worse have cancer cells out of control.

Who could know exactly why certain part of our body has cancer in the first place? No one knows, but our body knows the cause precisely.

It is not that you have cancer first and then your health is getting worse. On the contrary, first of all, your health is getting worse and worse, and then cancer cells become out of control.

In this case, doctors give you operation and chemotherapy! Who or what can heal the wound caused by operation? Everyone knows that it is our body that does that. Chemotherapy is even more scaring.

After these two fatal damaging treatments, you could survive long, which is by chance. If you could not survive long, that is not hard to understand.

It costs so much body energy to take care of the wound caused by operation and it also costs so much to get recovered from chemotherapy. In a lot of cases, our body just cannot make it any more or any longer.

Even though living long enough after the treatments, you could live even longer if you do not receive any treatment because your body can manage more.

If we begin to take care of our body first, sleep at good time, give our body more time to have a good rest, our body can get recovered, trust me!

But no one believes that, they prefer to go to hospital to be cut and to be punched.

I will say I could help you feel better with your cancer if you do not have any treatment from conventional medicine. Most people will think I am ridiculous.

The truth is that I am not ridiculous. I am just one of those persons who have realized that and proved that with the help of TCM.

Try and find out

A lot of my readers are wondering whether what I am talking about is right or not.

The best way to find out is to try what I have suggested.

In my eyes, most people in developed countries have heart related problems so you try to massage the points that I have pointed out in the article” Take care of our heart”.

Then you will notice something about your body and find out if your body needs care.

Just remember it takes time for your body to become like the way it is and it also takes time for your body to get recovered.

As long as you insist on helping your body, you will agree with me. The best is that you can know so much about your body, then you understand why I am saying our body is so much capable.